Don’t put so much pressure on yourself. Perfection is not attainable and the sooner you realize that the better you’ll feel.
You will fail. Learn from it and move on.
It takes time to get to where you want and that’s okay.Enjoy the process.
You may end up in a different place or career than youenvisioned and that’s okay too.
Stop comparing yourself to others. It only leads to youtearing yourself or the other person down.
God has this. Seriously, God is bigger than any worry or anxiety you have.
Spend time with your family and friends. Tell them how much they mean to you every chance you get.
Let it go. That time you said the wrong thing or had an awkward interaction doesn’t matter. Chances are the other person doesn’t remember it.
Ask for help. You don’t need to do everything on your own.Be there for others and when you need help ask for it.
Enjoy the now. It’s great to have an event or something tolook forward to, but don’t let that stop you from being present.
Don’t rush. You’re not behind and life isn’t a race. It’snot about who gets their dream job first, who gets married first, or who haskids first. It’s about enjoying where you’re at and recognizing everyone is on hisor her own path.
You don’t know everything. Most of us are limited to our own experiences. Talk to other people and learn from their experiences. Read. Travel. Learn.
Overall, be kind to others and yourself. Apologize when you need to. Have the courage to try something new. Learn when to say no to commitments. Invest in yourself. Hold on tight to those closest to you. There will be hard times- don’t let them make you colder. Find out what make you happy.
Now that it’s almost March I started thinking about my New Years resolutions. This year I decided to set intentions instead of specific goals. My list includes:
- travel more
- Be kind to myself and others
- Read more
- Write more
- Fear less
- Love fiercely
- Grow in faith
- Enjoy every moment and stop waiting for weekends and big events to have fun.
- Work on finding a balance between work and life
So how have I been doing? I’m happy to say that I’m working on all of these.
- I traveled to California last month and have a few trips planned this year.
- In my previous post I pointed out the importance of self love and extending the same kindness and grace to others.
- So far I’ve read 7 books this year and I’m reading two right now. I’m also getting ready to start a book club with a friend.
- This blog is proof that I’m working on writing 🙂
- For me the next three are all connected.
- I am a worrier and I’ve been working on that this year by choosing to worry less and spend more time growing in faith and prayer.
- Part of that is loving people and myself more.
- I am blessed to have a husband and family that love doing adventurous and fun things. I went to a Cher concert with my mom recently, I just took a trip to Chicago with my husband and we’re planning a family vacation. But instead of spending all of my time looking forward to these events I’m working on enjoying every single moment- even Saturday errands, grocery shopping, and lazy afternoons of watching Netflix. More time is spent in the small monotonous moments than in the big moments and that’s beautiful too.
- I’m still working on finding the balance. I used to think success was defined by long hours and burn out and that’s just not the case. It’s important to have both.
All of these are tied back to being kind to others and myself, spending time with my loved ones, and finding time for the things I love to do. It continues to be a work in progress but I’m enjoying the work.
What about you? Did you make any new year’s resolutions? Did you keep them? And if you did, what helped you succeed?